I dont know you, so i cant say you are. and i def dont know you irl, and i know Noone on these forums could tell who you are. so basically enough look in the mirror, and find the feelings that stir in your heart. if you find them to be negative, set a goal for yourself to be a good person. its not that hard. if you take it from a forum perspective. its not hard to not be an ass. putting down insults or aggravations just appeases oneself, and shows no maturity. Honestly, the question to other people can only give you a small piece of a puzzle, cause not everyone else is "good" themselves, so how can they tell you whats "good"..shit ranting..if you dont know the answer to that question, go find it out for yourself.. [ersonal growth happens from within, not on a forum.